7 ways to raise libido in women

Posted in Sexuality.

Do you know that certain things can make it easier for a woman to reach orgasm faster? Try these bedroom-tested strategies.


(1)   Surprise your partner with some new cologne


A person’s sense of smell can be heightened during times of extreme arousal. Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes to sexual functioning. Anything that smells good to her can raise libido substantially. You can either fill the room with warm, relaxing and romantic odor or you can put on some perfume that she particularly favors.


(2)   Give her feet some warm attention


You should never under-estimate the importance of warm feet in increasing the likelihood of her getting an orgasm. According to Dutch scientists from theUniversityofGroningen, the odds of a woman having an orgasm increase by 30% if her feet are warm. If you want to please her, a foot massage with a warming gel can do wonders, especially if you concentrate on the pads of her toes and the webbing in between, which are linked to her nether zones.


(3)   Indirect stimulation works best


Before a woman is fully aroused, direct clitoral contact can be too sensitive for her. Therefore, it is best to begin with indirect stimulation. If you run your tongue or fingers around her clitoral hood, concentrate on the 10 o’ clock and 2 o’ clock areas on either side. Stimulating on these 2 sweet spots can help to increase her body’s readiness to receive more direct touching on her hypersensitive erogenous zones later. It is only after her breathing gets rapid and her clitoris becomes enlarged (due to blood been pumped to her genitals), that you can move to directly stimulate the clitoris.


(4)   Kiss on the right side of her spine


Touching on the right side of a woman’s spine can make her orgasm faster than on the left side. This is probably due to the left side of the brain (being the emotional part) controlling the right side of her body. Whether you are kissing her, stroking her or gently teasing her by using any object that can tickle her, make sure your moves are wide stimulating more areas along the way as you move slowly down to the lower part of her body.


(5)   The booty touch


The buttocks are another erotic spot that are packed with nerve endings. To give her a surprising jolt of pleasure, spread your fingers wide and squeeze both buttocks firmly. A more sensual way of touching her buttocks is to use your fingers or feather or any other objects to tickle this area. There are some women who crave a good spanking. But before you do this check with her to find out whether she is into it.


(6)   Brushing/rubbing of the area around the external opening


A lot of guys have this mistaken belief that if they can thrust deeper and harder it will be better. It is probably due to this reason that some of them wants to look for ways and means to enlarge or lengthen their male hood which is not necessary if their main purpose is to pleasure women.


Do you know why women usually do not get an orgasm from penetration? This is because the normal thrusting does not give much contact to her clitoris. Also there are fewer nerve endings in the walls of the vagina as compared to the area around her external opening. So, instead of trying to push deeper and harder, it will be better if your action should be more of rubbing your pubic area against her clitoris, which will give her the stimulation she desires to achieve orgasm. It is also this reason that explains why many women prefer the woman-on-top position.


(7)   Breathe down her neck


The neck is an area that is very sensitive to touch because the skin is thin and blood vessels are close to the surface. When you are trying to turn a girl on, you can kiss along her jaw, and the hollows just above the collarbone. This will drive her wild.

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