As a guy, I enjoy a great blowjob. It is an amazing form of foreplay for me. It helps me a lot to get an erection quickly, especially at times when my sexual desire is hurt by stress. However, I also have my fair share of unhappy experiences due to some half-hearted and lousy blow jobs. Read on to see if you are committing any of these classic blowjob mistakes and learn the tips to please your man by giving him a blowjob in the right way.
(1) You use your teeth
Unless you really hate your guy so much that you want to bite him off, do not use your teeth to grip tightly on his manhood. Though it looks hard and stiff as a rod when erected, it is actually as fragile as glass, which needs your tender loving care. Instead, you hide your teeth behind your lips and use your lips to hold and glide along the length of your guy’s sexual organ.
(2) You give a boring blowjob and treat it like a chore
You can add more fun and pleasure for your guy when giving him blowjob by changing the sensation using your mouth rim, tongue, lips, fingers, hands and breasts – individually or in combinations. Go for the extra mile to pleasure your man, means you should not neglect the rest of his body.
The scrotum (the skin enclosing the testicles) and testicles are particularly sensitive and most men like them to be stimulated. During oral sex, you can gently lick his testicles or hold them in one of your hands. You can also apply pressure to the perineum (the spot between anus and penis) with one or two fingers, as this can also feel good. I particularly find it a great turn on when my girl keeps licking on my anus, which is a commonly neglected erotic spot.
If your man is not circumcised, you can insert your tongue into the foreskin and circle around the tip with it. You can use your fingers to gently massage the tip through the foreskin, alternating with deep tongue licks.
Men can get easily aroused by what they see. To drive him wild, you can touch yourself as you play with him, change the position so that he can get a different viewing angle, or look at him seductively as you glide your mouth and tongue over his penis and testicles.
When giving blowjob, you should adjust the tempo and intensity such as hard and fast, slow and hard or fast and light. When your mouth feels cramped, you can switch to using your lips to rub against the shaft while holding his testicles in your hand.
(3) You do not find out what he particularly likes
Some women assume that a guy will automatically feel satisfied after receiving a blowjob. They do not ask for feedback to find out their guy’s preferences. You can learn where and what his hot buttons are by asking him to masturbate in front of you or to let him guide your movement and show the rhythm and motion that will drive him crazy with desire.
(4) You only use your mouth
Giving oral sex does not mean you limit your action to the mouth only. You can use your hands to help in your stimulation effort. Teasing the rest of his body will create major anticipation and appreciation. Use your hands to caress his nipples, inner thighs, buttocks and pubic area as you lick and suck his penis.
Combining oral with manual stimulation is a great way to enhance intensity and increase variety. Place one hand around the shaft while you move up and down along the top half of his penis. Try coordinating your movements so that your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison. Or, you can do the same action by using only 2 fingers, the thumb and the middle finger to wrap around the shaft of his penis. These 2 fingers will help to create extra stimulation as they slide further down to the lower end of his penis where your mouth is not able to reach.