Even though you try as hard as you can, you still want to know, how will I fix my relationship? As terrible as it may appear there are many things you can do that will help you out. I am going to tell you what you need to do to get your ex wife back.
First off you and your ex wife need to know for certain if you are consenting to working things out with each other. If the both of you feel like you can work on your relationship and you both are prepared to give in to each others feelings and desires, then you have a real good chance of making it work.
You have to be willing to admit your faults and know when and where you went wrong in the relationship. You can not expect them to be the only one at fault. You had your role in the relationship also. The part you played is just as important and may have very well been the trouble. Except your responsibility, and restore what is wrong with you.
Once you see what the troubles with you are, then the two of you are able sit down and talk over the problems and find a answer. Talking about the problem and finding a answer is what it is all about. Playing the blame game will not help you at all, in fact it will only make things harder. Open up and be honest with each other so you will know how to go forward in the relationship.
A lot of individuals in bad relationships feel the need to talk to someone else about their problems. That is fine if that is what they really need to do, but if they talk to each other openly they will not need to put their business in the streets. Having an open mind for discussion and listening is all you need. Fixing your relationship will not be easy, but anything or anybody worth having deserves hard work.
Attempting to figure out how to fix my relationship should not be something you have to do alone. The two of you must be willing and able to work it out. Consider the one you love feelings as well as your own. Put them first and they put you first all things will come together for the both of you. No one in the relationship is perfect do not expect it and do not try to be perfect. Show love, forgiveness, and affection and watch it work out.