It has been a couple of weeks now and you wake up one morning saying to yourself “I want my ex back!” Which is a completely normal reaction if you find that you’re still in love with your ex. It is also normal that you will find you have no real idea how to go about getting them back. So you end up looking around for help to save your relationship.
1.) Ok first, before you go off trying to get your ex back, make sure that you’re not going through the natural grieving process that comes at the end of a relationship. At the end of almost all relationships there is a period when the hurt and pain of loss is so intense that it is like the grieving process. When you are in this process it is normal to have the feeling “I want my ex back!” and for that feeling to be all you think about.
2.) This is because you are grieving for all the dreams, hopes and plans you had that were tied up in your relationship. So make real sure that you’re not going through this process before you attempt to get your ex back.
3.) Now assuming that it is more than natural grieving, you are now ready to make good on your thought that “I want my ex back!” your next move should always be to find out what went wrong and what it will take on your part to get it fixed.
4.) Understand that unless you make the time to go over the mistakes that you made, then getting back with your ex will only lead to the same break up in the relationship as before and that will any good for you or your ex. Take responsibility for your mistakes and anything that you might have done wrong to contribute to the break up of the relationship.
5.) A very important point to remember is not to dwell on what you believe your ex might have done wrong to cause some of the problems. Let them take care of their things for now and you take care of yours. There will be time later for the both of you to dig around in the collective causes, but for now, you must work on your own issues and mistakes.
6.) If you are sincere about the fact that “I want my ex back!” then all that has been outlined is really the start that you need to take to get back with your ex and to secure a future for the both of you that will not fall into the same mistakes that caused the problems in your relationship. It is hard to find that special person. When you do find them you need to hang on tight through the good and the not so good. You need to come together and not break up. Why break up when you can make up? Remember too, making up can be a lot of fun!