In a three year non-scientific survey conducted by Coach Scott
(www.coachscott22.com) of thousands men who enter the many gay
chat rooms or message boards with the intent to meet another man
for casual sex now comprise over thirty percent of all these men
seeking a no strings attached sexual encounter.
The reasons are many and vary from each person, but he most
common comments from men ages 26-50 were (in no particular order
of importance) the need for sex, the need for man-to-man sex,
the need to be discreet, the need to not feel like he was
cheating (with a women he would feel like he was cheating), the
need to be penetrated, need to be submissive, the need to live
out a fetish and the need to learn from other men.
In over ninety-five percent of the men surveyed, they described
their love and relationship with their spouse as excellent. The
men who are in these gay casual encounters are not living in bad
relationships. In the opinion of Coach Scott, the wife who
should be concerned is the one living in a great relationship.