One way traffic

Posted in Dating.

There comes a time in everyone’s life when they are on the wrong end of a love triangle, or just on the wrong end of love. You find yourself in a position that no one likes to find themselves in, your love is unrequited and it is all one way traffic. It  is a very disconcerting feeling and you find that your life isn’t quite as ripe as you once thought.

The process is hard because you become excited when you think of life with them, and what it might be like but you then become deflated when you realise just how far you are from it. If you know what you want that is great because you know a hell of a lot more than most. But not being able to get it brings about a whole other dimension of dilemmas.

You being to ask yourself questions, why doesn’t he want me? Why doesn’t he think that I’m good enough for him? And there are two ways you can deal with this situation. You can either bury your head in the sand, feel sorry for yourself and just mooch about, or you can do something about it. You can show that you are better than him, and get up every day determined to prove him wrong and make yourself happy.

And after six months the difference will be staggering. You will probably find that you have found someone if you got up off your back side and did something proactive every day, whereas those that did nothing may are in the same rut they were in previously and therefore nowhere better off than they were before.

So whichever you do is up to you, it is obviously easier to bury your head in the sand but the right thing to do is there to be seen by all. Get yourself up every day with the right attitude, know what you want out of life, and if you do not get it first of all ensure that you get it the next time. Move yourself up the ladder and get back on track.

If you can really know what you want out of life, then you do not realise just how lucky you are in life. Because you have found your path, you just haven’t quite seized it yet, so get on it and seize it to make the most of your life.

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