Making up with someone can be very difficult because usually there is a lot of false pride and ego involved. It is very difficult for two adults to come together and in it when they are wrong or put themselves on the line for somebody else. But making up doesn’t have to be difficult at all, usually all it really involves is a little bit of self-analysis and communication with the other person to make things work.
In this article I’m going to discuss two things you can do in order to make your chances of making out with someone better. Ask yourself what is going to be better in your relationship this time if you were to make up. Sometimes you are so desperate to get someone back that you will say or do anything to get them back. You are not thinking correctly when you do this, or only mission is to get back in the other person’s good graces. But you need to strongly consider what is going to be different this time around in the relationship if you were to get back together with the other person.
Are you going to do the same things you always did? Is there going to be a short honeymoon period before you go back to doing the same things which caused a rift in your relationship in the first place? Is the other person going to act differently towards you in a way which may harm the relationship? All these questions must be answered before you make up. If things aren’t going to be the same as they were before then it may be a bad idea to make up with someone. If you want to make out with someone correctly always make sure that you will be able to get back to a good place after the water has been cleared. You need to talk to the other person about what would happen if you were to get back together. Making up with someone is definitely good, but you need to know what is going to change should you get back together with a particular person.
Obviously you have reasons for the problems in your relationship. You need to address how are things going to change should to make up. If things are going to change for the better than making up is definitely a good thing, but if you feel things will be permanently different than what they were before, then this is not a good reason to making up.