Too much linking affects friendship??

Posted in Friendship.

“What man roaming around with a girl”, “what is there between you and that girl with you”, “oho, you have a girl friend”… are some of the lines that two “just” friends hear more than a boy and girl friend, which acts as a slang.

The point that comes under my mind is that since they are of opposite sex there generates attraction, but the major point is you take that feeling seriously or it’s just an attraction or love. Due to these types of comments there can be two results. One is that both of them may start thinking that all this is true. Other one is that both of them start thinking it other way and reduce talks, meetings to show others that nothing like that exists.

So if we see deeply both of them have negative aspect only. I will explain it in order.

If they feel that all that crap is true then they can fall into a commitment which have very less future as time passes by they will get to know what differences they have, what problems they have to face, which will lead to a break up and hence friendship weakens hence affecting friendship.

Now the second aspect directly shows that if they reduce everything then it is affecting closeness or friendship hence both these points show that too much linking affects friendship.

There can be a severe affect of it if one has really feelings for other. If someone is sharing everything to a friend the other person should not think that there are same feelings that side too. To be precise if someone is developing feelings then he should try to reduce that by some way if he doesn’t want to go ahead hence friendship level reduces by those means, but if the feelings grows and grows then whole world near him can see that. Due to which linking starts and the other person feels uncomfortable.

The truth is that no matter what efforts one makes at least for once he will think about WHAT OTHERS WILL SAY… now the question is that should it happen? I don’t think it should…

I will say just few more lines for the people who do this… THIS IS YOUR LIFE; YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDSHIP LEVEL WITH YOUR FRIENDS NOT THE WHOLE WORLD.

And last few lines for those who create links… KEEP YOURSELF ON THEIR SIDE AND THEN THINK DOES IT FEEL GOOD TO HEAR SAME THING AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN…!!!

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